women and the complacency factor

First, this quote:

‘I am convinced that there is a place in hell for women who do not help each other,”  Madeleine Korbel Albright 

Have I mentioned that I love this woman? She was a trail-blazing babe, if she were younger and interested I’d campaign for her for president : )

Ok, now let’s talk about that complacency factor amongst women – I am (in keeping with my nature) going to add in my two cents and rachet the whole enchilada of a subject up by adding in the sexuality factor to this complex complacency factor and the end result is probably – complex : )

Oh c’mon, you knew that was coming, no?

Women have been indoctrinated (follow me here) and religion has done it for them for years, decades, centuries in fact…now, the net result is women indoctrinate themselves and other women, their own daughters. Not me though…not going to happen…but back to the religion thing for a mo’ – bc it has been the controlling factor.

Think about it, if women’s largest role was that of bearing and raising of children, it would behoove her to have a man who could bring home the bacon (or mastadon), he’d be physically strong enough to do that and other backbreaking work she cannot do, and it would be nice if the offspring looked a bit like him so he’s assured that they are his and that will probably make him want to stay around and protect them (and you) since you did that baby making work…

…or he might be out spreading more seeds with more women (as if the world just wouldn’t make it without his large gene pool contributions, oh please) and then several of the womenfolk get to do the man’s work in addition to her own whilst he populates the region, or just gets lots of practice ; ) and the women wouldn’t even notice that the work went well without male supervision (see how slickly this inculcation goes and how deep it runs).

Wow, see how nicely that ‘I must spread my seed’ rap has worked for men? Hahaha…especially Mormon men, what other religion could con women into doing it with a man 3x’s her age and then claim to like the arrangement, uh, yeah ok right…but women are complicit in this agreement and I partially blame religion, and I partly blame the women who are not religious on being too competitive with other females so much so that they’d rather get nothing done as far as female rights go, bc it’d mean having to drop the competitive BS (and that’s mostly about and over men).

 - uh, wake up, ladies, men will come and go (oh nice pun) but don’t go throwing your commadres under the bus for a man, in fact, don’t throw yourself there either. A man would not do that for you, believe me, I’ll repeat that in better words, there are a lot of things men will do for their women but they will not throw themselves under a bus for you (literally or figuratively), nor should they, and so, nor should you. Got that? Any questions?

Now on another note…

My question since I was seventeen was always – Ok, wait a minute, if women are ‘whores’ and ’sluts’ if they screw more than the one man (preferably her hubby) and are sexually, um, knowledegable, then who are all these ‘experienced’ men getting it on with? Oh, other ‘whores’ and ’sluts,’ - I see…uh-huh or we could just say in an equal fashion that experienced men have set about getting experienced with ‘experienced women’ and not the paid for kind, but - the randy kind, the kind they are…hahaha…anyway, I digressed there…

So….all this religious thought has gotten us is bible thumping women who actually believe, like their men have told them, that only men can teach, that women’s duty is this and that, that only good women sleep with one man all her life, that terminating an unwanted pregnancy is ’sinful’ (oh how’s that work when men often walk out on the work of the child rearing) that wanting other than to serve them, er, I mean – the LORD (them, hahaha) is what they should be wanting instead…

Is it any wonder women are where they are in this world? Women make up 56% of the voting public in the US and yet very few females are holding high office, hmmm….

Ahhh – it’s bc we have so much to deal with and from all angles. Yep, and then throw in some hormonal moments (as I’ve mentioned before here though, men, that’s no excuse – women become just as astute at handling their monthly issues as men do at handling a razor daily so they don’t slit their throat by accident, believe it : )

Anyway, thanks for letting me vent bc we all have to do it sometimes…

oh yeah, did I mention I’m PMSing, ahahaha…just kidding, I’m fine ; )

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Peace out ; ) Luv, Zen Lill